Great Escapees!

Anyone who wants their kids to grow up with a healthy and right perspective
view of marriage MUST make time and create moments together, alone! The
kids will tantrum all they like, they will pull at your heart's strings (and yes,
it hurts for a mom!)...but until we realise what we are DOING is in fact for them,
we'll be fighting a loosing battle of loosing our marriage.

Okay, while most parents are keeping a close eye on their children's revision
during the ONE WEEK PSLE marking BLESSING of a holiday plus Deepavali,
we did the unthinkable and snuck away, all fully arranged and organised to
Langkawi.
We did, nothing...saw very little, ate a LOT, talked so much, laughed and
giggled like teenagers (mind you, we are near 40s) and missed the girls
TERRIBLY! Such a dilemma and every bit worth the effort!
We 'suffered' when we thought of the girls, but we rejoice at the fact that
they now KNOW, "Daddy & Mommy loves each other so much they always
put each other first!" and that they are secure, because we ARE as a couple!
Go for it EVERYONE! Book the sitters, arrange the playdates, mark the dates
on the calendar and enjoy being a couple (without kids) all over again...